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Romancing His Hobbies =)
Is your man addicted to sports, working on his car, or riding his motorcycle? Great! Instead of letting his passion take away from your relationship, get involved and get closer to him. You don’t have to suddenly fall in love with football or golf to romance his hobbies. There are ways to reach out to him without extending yourself beyond your comfort zone and without intruding on his time to enjoy his hobbies alone or with the guys.
Movie Night Choose a movie that is set in the context of their hobby or a documentary on the subject. Make popcorn and beer, trade foot massages, and cuddle on the couch while you learn a thing or two about something he loves. Themed Nights Out Take him on a date where you surprise him with something special having to do with his hobby. For example, take him miniature golfing if he’s a golfer, to a Hard Rock Café if he's into music, or to the Baseball Hall of Fame if that is his love. If he's into cars, a car show is the perfect date idea. Search out an architectural masterpiece in your city to visit with your love if building and design is his passion, or arrange a hike and a picnic if he loves the outdoors. Homemade Treats Make him cookies shaped like footballs, a memory box for his hobby memorabilia, or a scrapbook full of photos of your guy doing his thing. The Big Event If your man is a hockey fan, then take him to the big game. If he’s a fan of military aircraft, fishing or woodworking, it may not be so easy to find the events. Search the internet for special events, shows and lectures on the subject. Sometimes people of a specific trade are inspired to create collections of art based on those subjects. These themed art displays are often a great way to perhaps meld your interests with his and let you bond over his hobby while doing something you both can enjoy. Get Involved Host a Superbowl party or join his fantasy football league. Sit and watch games with him and actually make an effort to understand what's going on. If racing cars is your guy’s hobby, ask him to let you share the thrill with him. Go support him if he races himself, or join him at a race if he doesn't. You could even challenge him to a race at a local go kart track! When your guy is getting all decked out to go paintballing or readying his truck for the hunt, let him know you’d like to go with him sometime. Don't just go and be a buzzkill...throw yourself into it wholeheartedly. You never know, it may turn out to be your new thing! Support Them Ask questions and learn about their hobby on your own. Buy them a book on the subject and tell them what you like about it yourself. Brag about his interests to your friends and make sure they know that you approve of his hobbies. Show off his memorabilia when company comes over. Encourage your man to continue enjoying what he does and join in whenever you can. Make snacks for poker night, or pick up two tickets to an event for him and a friend (he'll love it when you go with him, but sending him and one of his buddies off for a guys night will be an unexpected treat.) Wear Your Support Where a jersey of his favorite team to bed or a baseball cap to the grocery store. Guys love seeing their ladies in sportswear, and it's an easy way to show him that you support his hobby. Gifts Choosing a hobby-themed gift for your lover is just another way to show him how much you love him and everything that makes him who he is. Big gifts or small ones, for special occasions or just because, these gifts will mean the world to him.  |
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12-29-2008, 08:42 PM
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where'd you copy and paste this one this time?
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12-29-2008, 08:44 PM
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yahhhhooooooo :] is it right?
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yeah for the most part but i guess it's logic too?
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12-29-2008, 08:47 PM
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i know. some of the ideas are kinda unoriginal and obvious, but it's still <3 :]
i'm gonna go bother allen & read it to him now. mahahahha.. |
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12-29-2008, 08:48 PM
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what you been up to kat? how was your holiday time?
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12-29-2008, 08:52 PM
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i will talk to you on aiiiim or something k?
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12-29-2008, 08:53 PM
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aritee then
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12-29-2008, 09:31 PM
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arnt we trying to be the all american white wife?
i like when we have opposite interests. you like EVERY hobby that shit gets boring. even taking a interest in all of them too much. personally this reads like "your in a marriage rut you need help and here are some points to save your old marriage" to me.
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12-29-2008, 10:03 PM
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i do the same to my boyfriend..bother him with an article from yahoo. LOL
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hahahahha! it's so cute how they pretend to listen, and you know this, but continue reading anyway just to quiz them on it. lol |
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It's Trikka!
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THIS CAN'T BE LIFE!!!!
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yeah Katrikka be buggin me sometimes, but I know she has good intentions 
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lol you know you like hearing those yahoo articles...makes you a man!!!!!!!
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12-30-2008, 09:13 AM
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a lot of this shit seems really corny
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I'm every kind of a problem, homie I carry karma inside of my soul, my body's COMPOSED of jack...
of marijuana and smoke, I'm so mad - but figure, the weed and liquor is everybody I KNOW I ain't bipolar, my - only 2 sides are either high or sober ......... Tell your mom, come over |
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12-30-2008, 02:03 PM
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it's not corny!!!! you just haven't met....LOVE. <3 lol <3 <3 <3
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12-30-2008, 02:03 PM
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oooopsie. computer malfunction '^,^
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12-30-2008, 09:15 PM
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football shaped cookies...that shit is corny.
and this in general is pretty misogynistic in assuming that all women are housewives. W-I-F-E wash, iron, fuck etc.
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I'm every kind of a problem, homie I carry karma inside of my soul, my body's COMPOSED of jack...
of marijuana and smoke, I'm so mad - but figure, the weed and liquor is everybody I KNOW I ain't bipolar, my - only 2 sides are either high or sober ......... Tell your mom, come over |
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12-30-2008, 09:24 PM
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thats what im saying. this reads like "im a rich white woman and all my husband does is sit in the garage and work on his car" there answer is make him cookies? watch a movie? its one thing if your girlfriend or wife generally takes interest in you hobbies not fake it so you look like the all American stereotypical white wife.
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bitches come n go..so nigga cum n go
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agree'd
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people going to hate, but i could give a fuck less.. a nigga like me? is busy in the pursuit of success
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THIS CAN'T BE LIFE!!!!
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LMFAO!!!!!!!!
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Come on, courage, let’s be heard; Turn feelings into words.
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LOL @ This guide would definitely work if the boyfriend was gay and/or white.
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lol @ isnt that the same thing?
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Come on, courage, let’s be heard; Turn feelings into words.
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LOL @ I guess if you had personal experiences with both, then you would then, right?
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ive seen it take play...teh whites are teh ghey
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actually i think this would backfire...I can't be around my girl 24/7...and there is some things I def cannot do with my girl...and that includes some of my hobbies...shits just not meant for your girl to be there when your doing it...
I think the number one thing women get fucked up is sometimes men just want time to themselves...not because they are mad or anything like that...just simply because... but women always take that the wrong way and try to get to involved...which just annoys the hell outta men and makes shit worse. |
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01-05-2009, 01:49 PM
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bitches come n go..so nigga cum n go
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real fucking shit^^^^^^^^^^^
personal space n alone time is very important in a relationship but katt your overanalyzing it..honestly i think if u gave your man some head you wouldnt have to worry about any of this..go cop a dildo asap n practice girl, practice!!
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people going to hate, but i could give a fuck less.. a nigga like me? is busy in the pursuit of success
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01-05-2009, 09:18 PM
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so much truth in this the sports this is a definite plus when girls support your team and wear jerseys t shirts etc.
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eh itd be better if they had an opinion of their own. That way it'd be more competitive when your team and hers face which keeps it interesting. If she supports your team out of nowhere then you know she's only doing it to please you and doesnt legitimately care.
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I'm every kind of a problem, homie I carry karma inside of my soul, my body's COMPOSED of jack...
of marijuana and smoke, I'm so mad - but figure, the weed and liquor is everybody I KNOW I ain't bipolar, my - only 2 sides are either high or sober ......... Tell your mom, come over |
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01-17-2009, 02:57 AM
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^i always pick the opposite team my hubby likes, and root for them to win because it pisses him and his boys off. =)
but sometimes you men can get really emotional..over a game. :/ like gz...it's just football..or basketball.. or soccer.. don't cry now!! |
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